My method around the sessions, my role and development.

For every session,  Tantra Massage, Healing & Intimacy Coaching, I prepare myself through meditation, dance, energy exercises and also

• I ensure an energetically free atmosphere
• we will discuss the contents with a cup of tea
• I would like to hear your specific circumstance
• may you bring someone

During the session  I am there for you, I support your individual growth, empower your personal and spiritual development and pay close attention to your emotional and physical circumstances, therefore during the session I will

• respect religion, culture, ethnic and sexual background
• to (act) sincerely and from equality and compassion
• respect personal choices and boundaries
• respect if you make another choice at any time
• accommodate your supervisor, in the practice room or in another room

After the session,  I recommend that you share your experience, regardless of whether you bring a companion.
I know a strict code regarding confidentiality and privacy, that’s why I will

• respect your confidentiality
• let integrity be paramount in our professional relationship
• honor the trust you place in me
• if I meet you on a social level, do not publicly state that you are a client of mine, unless I get your permission

My role

I am there to give and serve (the Shiva or Shakti energy in you), during the sessions I work with the physical, personal, mental, emotional and transcendent to guide you on your path.

I offer you a safe, loving, accepting environment, an atmosphere that radiates protection, trust and prospect, space for surrender and healing. Many people refer to space as a safe uterus. Every session is different, every individual customer is different, but the elements we work with include:

• moving energy / opening of the chakras by breathing, exercises and other meditations
• attention for and connection of the various energy points of the body
• lovingly present, connecting
• movement / dance / coaching and reflective techniques
• therapeutic insights
• touch of the whole body, and on deepening also the yoni / lingam and the prostate

Women:

Over the centuries, both culturally and personally, the woman has been “hurt”. If only because of the absence of the father figure or otherwise due to sexual abuse. The wounds can be healed. The essence of my soft feminine energy is being present, caring and healing and working from purity.

Rediscover your own strength, feel your own limits and indicate that you are in balance with your authentic self. With some exercises there is a chance that you can also say NO, you are completely free and this will be respected. Your self-confidence will increase and more and more you will make the connection with your unconditional (own) love.

I may motivate, stimulate, witness “whatever manifests itself” without criticism and not take it personally. Unexpected emotions can come loose, fear, hate, excitement, pain, anger, in this safe environment you have all the space to express, heal and BE. In the midst of nature, and the many privacy (1 hectare paradise) it is also possible to do some exercises outside to express yourself and let go.

Men:

Tantra is a path “away from being purposeful”. I would like to introduce you to total surrender / your state of being in the moment, literally let go of the control, just “have to do, want or do nothing”. A moment of coming to yourself and feeling what ‘desire’ means to you. Feeling both your masculine and feminine energy, coming home to the soft side, because it can be there. Unfortunately, the culture has been hard for a long time, “men should not cry”, even though there may be right now, that creates space, that purifies and clears the path.

That’s why I keep developing (professionally)

• Make sure I stay fit, physically, emotionally, mentally and spiritually
• Mirror myself to others, including through super- and intervision and coaching
• Increase the quality of my work through training and learning
• Share my knowledge and experience with others, for the benefit of everyone

If you have any questions, feel free to contact me…